To Become Self-Determining

"One of my most valuable life lessons came from my mentor when I was eighteen years old. I was feeling sorry for myself when my mentor asked if I’d like a helping hand to help me through this rough spot. I said, “Yes.” Then he looked me straight in the eye and told me in no uncertain terms that if I wanted a helping hand, I had one at the end of each arm. He promptly turned around and left the room. As startled as I was, I knew he was absolutely right. He knew that for me to become self-determining I had to find my own answers."

--  Jeffrey Spencer

No One Can Do It For You

"At the end of the day, no one but you can do what is necessary to make your success happen. All the great golfers and tennis players must swing their own golf clubs and rackets; no one can do that for them. Success teaches you that the responsibility for success is yours alone."

--  Jeffrey Spencer

Do Not Halt Your Development

"Living life too much in the safe zone keeps you subordinate to other people, places, and things, which halts the development of your talents and makes living a meaningful and prosperous life more difficult."

--  Jeffrey Spencer

Preparation Meets Opportunity

"Success happens when preparation meets opportunity. Your ability to capture an opportunity is directly proportional to your optimism, skill level, and preparedness. Optimism allows you to seize an opportunity the moment it shows up, and your skill level and preparedness allow you to transform it into a concrete success.  The more optimistic and prepared you are, the more opportunities you will seize and the more successes you will have."

--  Jeffrey Spencer

Your Anticipation and Belief

"The hope of having a successful today and a better tomorrow is the driving force that motivates winners to get up every morning. Your anticipation and belief in a more prosperous and fulfilling future keep your mind sharp and your fires of enthusiasm burning bright."

--  Jeffrey Spencer

What Success Teaches You

"Success matters because it teaches you to look to yourself, rather than others, for your happiness and validation. As a winner you always know you’ll get things done and take care of yourself regardless of circumstances. Your self-generated independence enables you to support others unconditionally without reciprocal expectation."

-- Jeffrey Spencer

The Law of Goal Achieved

"Everyone who’s achieved a goal knows the sense of self-pride that manifesting something positive brings. Every goal attained breaks a few more of the invisible chains that hold you back from becoming the best you can be, making your future goals easier to achieve. Each of your successes reconfirms to you that your achievements are the result of your efforts, and each validates your capacity to be the author of your own destiny." 

--  Jeffrey Spencer

Bouncing Back From Non Achievement

"No one ever has, nor will you  ever, accomplish everything you set out to do. Your inability to reach every goal you pursue is actually healthy, however, because it teaches you to remain trustful in yourself and gracious in defeat, and thereby a more determined individual and a better example for others. When others see you bounce back from a goal not achieved, they realize that not achieving a goal is something everyone must and can confront and overcome."

--  Jeffrey Spencer

How To Get More Success

"Each success you have opens your mind a little further to additional successes you’re capable of achieving. And the more you succeed, the more options you will envision and the more you will succeed. Every experience you have, and every fact you learn, reorganizes your knowledge base and prompts fresh and novel ideas related to achieving more success." 

--  Jeffrey Spencer

The Ability To Concentrate

"Your ability to focus and concentrate set the upper limit for how far you can develop your capacity for success because that determines what actions you can conceive and are capable of implementing."

--  Jeffrey Spencer

Building Your Winning Mentality

 "Each success you have further builds your winning mentality by improving your ability to focus, increasing your belief in the value of your aspirations, increasing your confidence in your decision making, expanding your cognitive capacity, increasing your life passion, and strengthening your purpose."

--  Jeffrey Spencer